In 2019, my ever-supportive mom commented on this page saying “Life is a journey where you have to reinvent yourself at different steps of the way.”
My life has changed tremendously since I’ve last posted. It’s been so long and there’s so much to catch up on, so in a nutshell – I am finally happy.
This page brought me so much joy at one time and I think it’s time to bring that back. One thing I struggle with on a daily basis is sticking to my schedule. I make one up in my head and then I retreat. I’ve given all my responsibilities to my nighttime routine when I am just extremely exhausted, so I think that’s something I should work on. I’ve realized (oh, I’ve known, and it’s been a tough pill to swallow) that I could be so much more productive if I wake up early. Mornings really shape my day so I feel like dedicating time-luxury tasks on that time of day would be a shift of energy as well. I’m less focused on my task list being so much about cleaning, and more focused on being mentally organized. My goals are to prioritize studying for my CMA, get involved more with my church, read my bible daily and not feel so rushed all the time. It’s all about the mind.
In the last few months, I have strengthened my bond with Jesus so much and that has really been the root of my happiness. Overall, I started prioritizing myself in ways that I have never before; I have become more aware of what I actually like and things that bring me joy; I’ve been spending more quality time with people who make me happy; I’ve consistently been in therapy and reading the bible. I noticed that my self-care is a direct reflection on what kind of mother I can be. I love being hands on with my son and teaching him new things. He’s so brilliant and funny – it makes me the happiest mom ever.
I’m trying to focus on one thing at a time, but I have all these ideas of who I ultimately want to be and what I want to do in life. All of the things I once prayed for are happening in my life right now. It’s important to be still and enjoy the moment. It’s amazing to see things from a new angle. The world is such a complicated and chaotic place, but with God all things are possible. One day at a time. Rome wasn’t built in one day.